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It's All About Identity
By Andrew S. Mahoney, M.S.,
In my counseling practice, I work
almost exclusively with gifted and talented people. Over the years,
I've identified certain themes that seem to be universal to this
population, and my work has been deeply affected by them.
Those who know my work have have
heard me increasingly advocate that we focus on the gifted person's
identity formation and development of self. Without this focus,
the needs of this population may not be appropriately addressed.
I came to this conclusion after years
of canvassing perceptions of gifted people and their parents, counselors,
teachers and others who have a direct relationship with them. I
have become increasingly aware of how far our society has to go
to provide gifted people affirmation and validation of their existence.
At best, we are benign, if not in total denial of giftedness.
Each time I ask a group of masters-
and doctoral-degree students if they are gifted and their response
is dead silence with maybe, way in the back of the room one hand
being raised -- it happened recently at a conference in Chicago
where I spoke to about 100 graduate educators and administrators
-- each time that happens, I am saddened.
Each time I meet a person insightful
enough to recognize his giftedness but afraid to identify himself
as gifted for fear his peers will label him conceited, I am saddened.
Each time I meet a young gifted person
who has consciously decided not to succeed for fear she will be
seen as a nerd and have no friends, I am saddened.
Each time I consult on a case where
a gifted child's behavior has been deemed to be pathology rather
than a typical gifted response, I am saddened.
Each time I listen to a gifted person
share how he believes he has never fit in with others, and doesn't
know why, I am saddened.
Each time I see the media portray
a prodigy like a 10-year-old college graduate as the typical gifted
child, I am saddened. Must a person be in the 99.9 percentile of
intelligence to qualify as gifted?
Each time I see professionals use
people like Einstein or Van Gogh as role models, I am saddened.
Are the only role models for the gifted highly revered masters,
and dead ones, at that?
I've had encounters like these all
too often. Each time I have one, I am saddened. It is because of
these painful testimonies that I have so fervently focused my study
on gifted identity.
The notion of being gifted must be
based on the reality of daily living, not on some romanticized,
perfect ideal. In my work with gifted people, we explore not only
how they are gifted, but also where their deficits lie. They need
to develop a whole sense of who they are in relationship to their
Research needs to move in the direction
of understanding the complexity in the relationship between identity
formation, achievement and self esteem. We as parents, educators
and counselors must work toward creating more systems and awareness
that affirm the very existence of gifted people. This might include
advocating for "appropriate" media coverage of the gifteds' needs,
not the prostitution of their wares. This also might require expanded
definitions of "gifted" that account for the complexity of the gifteds'
behavior. De-romanticizing the gifted would end glorification of
the suicides of gifted people. It would present real, approachable
I believe the work begins with
parents, educators and counselors, not with the children, others
or outside forces. The challenge lies in our own awareness, acknowledgment,
appreciation, and acceptance of being gifted. We can no longer expect
our gifted children, students, clients, patients and others to embrace
their identity as gifted people when, as their guides, we have not.
This article first appeared
in Counseling & Guidance Newsletter, Spring, 1995,
Volume 5, Issue 2.
© Copyrighted material from the National Association
for Gifted Children (NAGC). This material may not be reprinted
without permission from NAGC, Washington, D.C. (202-785-4268).
On the web at www.nagc.org.
Andrew S. Mahoney, MS, L.P.C., L.M.F.T., is
director of The Counseling Practice of Andrew S. Mahoney , a
counseling center for the gifted and talented. In addition, he
is past chair of the Counseling and Guidance Division of the
National Association of Gifted Children, and a trainer and supervisor
of counselors. For 20 plus years, Mr. Mahoney has explored and
developed frameworks for the counseling and psychotherapy of
Gifted and Talented individuals. His work offers a new and original
perspective for those interested in better serving this unique
population. He is also a professional pastel artist. To view
his online web porfolio, click
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